Sometimes, things go wrong. But remember: you don’t have to go with them.
At Friday evening’s memorial service for Don Belton, held at the Bloomington, IN Unitarian Universalist Church, this advice sat at the center of a story relayed by Don’s brother, Wayne.
It was a story about the move to Hollins College—from which Don received an M.A. in 1982—and the unexpectedly long road it took to get there, with a sports car up front and a hitched U-Haul trailer (“full of Don’s myriad collection of books”) pulling up the rear. Wayne, standing tall and elegant with a red handkerchief tucked snugly into his suit pocket, explained: it might have been that someone gave them bad directions; it might have been that they followed good directions badly. Either way, a six hour trip turned into one lasting “more than twelve,” with the remarkable result that it was deemed, by everyone, not just a memorable but even a pleasing, an enjoyable, a good trip. What ought to have been a fiasco had turned into something other than. Things go wrong. But you? You can go otherwise.
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